Many people get frustrated about finding their soulmate in life. There’s a popular saying that “love finds you and not the other way around.” That quote may ring true, but there’s also a way you can open your arms to love and find your soulmate, sooner than you think. If you’re interested in finding out how to meet your soulmate, read below.

The law of attraction can be a complex process but it can be understood by breaking down the concept. Let’s get into it a little bit. In life, we gravitate toward people, places and things because we commit to them, and allow that commitment to manifest in our minds. The law of attraction is embodying an idea that you live from each day.

The first thing step in finding the love of your life is to write down the qualities you want in a soulmate, and where you want your life to gravitate. Look inside your heart and ask yourself, “Would your soulmate be interested in dating you?”

Let’s be honest, everyone wants to say “yes” to that question but be transparent with yourself and try to identify who you are in a relationship, what you are good at in a relationship and what you may struggle with.

Not only do you need a list of qualities that make a good soulmate, but a list of deal breakers and red flags that won’t cut it for a lasting relationship.

These lists help you acknowledge standards and expectations you want to have in a lifelong relationship with a partner that you, ideally, want to gravitate toward.

If you haven’t found the right person yet, and you’re doing the lists, and achieving closure, ask yourself if you’re being the right person for yourself? If not, take action toward being that right person. Remember, the more you improve yourself, the healthier your relationships and friendships will be — which will make you one step closer to finding your true soulmate.

If you commit to manifesting your soulmate by just being the best person you can, your life will evolve to get you there.

With that said, enjoy being single and becoming your best self. One of the best parts of not being tied up with a significant other is that you get the chance to discover the best parts of yourself on your own. Learn to enjoy sleeping alone, traveling solo, discovering new hobbies and finding pleasure in doing what you want and when you want — celebrate where you are right now.

Don’t forget to pamper yourself and prove how valuable you are. Another aspect to consider: being single gives you opportunities to reflect and embrace the dark aspects of yourself you’ve been unwilling to look at so you can grow from those things.

But, do you want to know a secret? Your soulmate is you.

The perfect person in your life is you, and only you know what makes you happy. The list you made, or one you are about to make? It comes from you and who your soul is. The joy that comes from your growth will create a happier and healthier you. Your other half is you because ultimately, you are the most stable thing in your own life.

Maybe there is a life partner out there for you, who will love you for who you are, but do you know who you are yet? This is the time to find out.

AuthorJenna Roden